Well isn't life hard. I recently forgave my husband for several affairs spanning 8 years... when his back was against the wall and the women had all spilt the beans he had no choice but to come clean. The issue is that i have spent the last several years defending myself against accusations of infedelity and living with someone who was paranoid beyond belief but not because of my actions because of what he was doing.
This said and everything in the open a new life starting he once again believes he can accuse me of affairs - hes not sorry for what he has done he keeps picking on me and accusing me when i am not allowed to mention the women in question at all. It makes me mad and once again i set off proving that nothing is going on. Calling the people in question and then he starts again telling me i am not loyal to him and what he accuses me of should stay in the home... how then am i to prove i am faithful... oh this is not the objective, the objective is to pick on me and make me feel really bad. My story is a long one and i do hope that as it unfolds i will be able to reach out for support and advise.